The Diocese
Posted: 05/23/2025
Have you ever asked a simple question only to receive a confusing and complicated answer? Many patients I visit in the hospital share that, at some point in their care, theyâve had a similar experience with their doctors. One of my patients, a retired firefighter, once said, âI think theyâre just trying to be cautious.â
We live in times that demand caution and political correctnessâin both words and actions. In the professional world, a lawsuit is the last thing anyone wants to face. On a personal level, we try to be careful not to offend anyone. As a result, simple, straightforward questions often receive zigzagging answersâif any at all.
I call this âlevitating.â Levitating in ambiguity seems safe and comfortable. We choose to float around what we know to be true without ever quite touching the truth.
Yet Jesus teaches us to be firm in our stance, regardless of the circumstances: âLet your âyesâ be yes, and your âno,â no.â (Matthew 5:37)
Throughout historyâincluding modern timesâwe see examples of people who became martyrs, not because they lacked diplomacy, but because they stood firm in their convictions.
I believe itâs good to have different opinions. Itâs okay to change our views from time to time. Flexibility, of course, is a valuable asset. But we are called to gravitate, not levitateâbecause gravity pulls us to the center, where we are grounded, focused, and oriented.
Let us not hover in nebulous spaces but bear witness to truth, justice, and righteousness through our lives and work. The world needs less levitation and more gravitationâtoward what is true, good, and eternal.